How to meet that special someone in 2023: The Approach
Every single person, in some stage of their life, is waiting for the right person. So they look at dating websites or matrimonial websites or try to meet that someone special in an educational institute, workplace, etc. And of course, some people wait for love to happen. Some people find love, no doubt. But what about the rest of the people. They choose someone whom they think they would adjust with them and make things work eventually. But is this the right decision?
I believe why should we keep our options restricted. Have you heard stories about people finding that special one in malls, parks, etc? This is not just a story, it’s a reality. People do meet as a stranger and fall in love.
We live in a society where it is okay to interact with others. But we are so much preoccupied with our own life, our worries that we forget to meet new people. Once you get out of your comfort zone and meet new people, you could never know that person could be that special someone.
Every person has a different story to offer, every person has gone through different phases in life. And their story is so unique and beautiful, if you are just willing to know them.
How to meet that special someone | The conversation
If you find a girl/boy whom you feel attracted to or like to know them, just observe them for like a minute or so whether that person is in a situation to talk. After that, just go simply say Hi! or Hello! What’s the worse that could happen? They won’t respond that’s it. At least you have given a try! if the person responds that’s great news! Then be honest about yourself, tell your life story, listen to their life story and this is how you build a connection with a stranger!
Give at least one genuine compliment to make that person’s day
After reading this advice, there would be various reactions of people. But I genuinely feel compliment is a great way to build a strong connection. Imagine yourself, how many times someone has complimented you in a day. Hardly, one or two people but that’s an exception. We work so hard on ourself and if someone gives a compliment, it makes their day.
How to build the connection?
Get to know each other. This is a great way to build trust with each other. Without knowing each other, people won’t be sure about having any communications further. And how do we get to know if he/she is that someone special?
So people get out of your comfort zone, create opportunities, and just fall in love.
Check out the book by the author Leil Lowndes on how to meet new people. Great tips and advice written!
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